So you’re NOW engaged and after 22 years of life, you “ realized” you’re FAT! You’ve joined a gym, hired a trainer and started weightwatchers all in the same day!! So now when we go try to have a planner/bride bonding experience at a restaurant, we can only eat avocado and a spinach salad with no dressing. I DONT EAT LIKE THAT… everyone knows I love food! So once again, I have to take off my PLANNER HAT and put on my WE EATING SOME CHICKEN NEXT WEEK HAT!
How many brides have I had to coach through the I’m fat syndrome??? If I have to hear another bride say, “ I’m so fat” while standing in a Vera Wang gown, shaped like Ciara…I am not going to Level UP but GET UP and walk out. Listen sis, you’ve gotten what most women dream of…a FIANCE! And guess what, if you are FAT, he LOVES your FAT self. We as women are our worst critic. You see that image below? Look down, all the way down. Yea, that’s FAT OH ME!!! Yep, at 99 pounds soak and wet, I was walking around screaming I’m FAT. Tender age of 20 and complaining! You can only imagine how may eye rolls, I received on a daily bases! BUT now, I’m an advocate for some cushion for the pushing!! I believe that woman should have curves and clearly most women agree because, they stay in the gym making booties, thighs and hips.
Sis…beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the Bible states, that a women draws her husband close to God and persuades him by her humble and quiet spirit not by her appearance. Release the pressure, there is always someone bigger than you. Focus on your DRAWING POWER and not if you’re getting wider!
I must admit, I’m a little OCD when it comes to my weight and my husband told me these words just the other day and it changed my outlook-Focus on being healthy. God created all of us, BUT very different and you must learn to love the bone structure he used to design YOU. Love you, all of you even if its ALOT of YOU…love you! Honor his temple, your body is his dwelling place. Take care of it but don’t stress it out with quick diets, extreme cardio and etc.
Choose to be Healthy not FAT….but who are you really FAT to?
P.S.- Just incase my pep-talk didn't work….I must admit….those waist trainers are the TRUTH!!! You may pass out but that waistline will be snatched!!!
-Be Blessed from a really really FAT girl..hence the image below. I just rolled my own eyes at myself!!